this iS my VEGA troPa!!Wouldn't life be much easier if men just came right out and said what they were thinking and feeling? They often do but when it comes to relationships, many men just don't wear their hearts on their sleeves. If you're in a dating relationship that you'd like to see turn into a marital relationship, you're obviously going to want your man to feel the same way. If he's not sharing openly what he's feeling, there's still a way for you to tell. There are several signs that he's ready to marry you that will help you see where exactly he is at in terms of a more serious commitment.
One of the most obvious signs that he's ready to marry you is that he starts talking about the future in terms of you two as a couple as opposed him by himself. Consider how often he says things like "we" or "us" and how many times a day he's using the words "me" or "I". When a man is marriage minded he starts talking about the two of you as a couple. He may say things about what you two will be doing years from now or the children you two will have together. A man who wants to get married starts to think that way.
If he suddenly seems more concerned with money matters that's a plus for you. One of the signs that he's ready to marry you is that he'll want to provide for you and the future family you two will be raising. If a man becomes obsessed with retirement savings, and mortgage rates, he's got a more serious commitment in mind. Men who are still thinking about being single tend to worry more about what they can buy in the moment versus how they can best spend their money to help you two as a couple.
There are specific things that any woman can say and do that will make her men want to commit to her. If you believe that he is the man you are destined to be with there are things you can do right now that will make him feel exactly the same way about you. For more insight into how to get your man to commit to you, visit this Helpful Site!
You don't have to wait for him to decide whether or not he's ready to commit to you. If you are tired of putting your dreams on hold because he's commitment phobic, there are things you can do to make him want to marry you now. Learn right now what you need to do to make him fall to his knees and beg you to marry him.
Let's face it - not everyone has time for dating or maintaining a serious relationship. Serious relationships take hard work, and even then they can end far too easily. Dating is expensive, time consuming and can be entirely fruitless - a lot of smoke and just not too much fire. So what can you do in the meantime to have a little fun without risking a huge commitment? Easy - find and start a friends with benefits relationship.
What, exactly, does it mean to be friends with benefits? Simply put, that's a relationship where two people are close friends, but have no interest in dating one another and are not attached to anybody else.
Because a commitment is not desired, they're able to enjoy the physical parts of a relationship without all of the strings that typically come attached. Good friends are understanding of each others needs and so can satisfy them without any guilt or hard feelings.
So how can you go about finding a woman like this? Well, the first thing you need is a close friend that you feel very comfortable with and are physically attracted to.
You need to make sure that they are not currently involved in any other relationship or will not easily fall for you if you were to start a physical relationship. You can begin trying to find out their thoughts on becoming friends with benefits by joking around in a safe and secure setting. You may be surprised at how many people really are open to this kind of arrangement.
If they seem offended, walk away. It's not worth ruining a friendship over and there are other fish in the see. But if they seem into the idea, it's time to go to the next level: making sure they're serious. That's right - it's important to make sure they're serious about not being serious and that this is actually going to be a reality. Discuss it hypothetically and really get a grasp of their thoughts. Alcohol doesn't hurt in this setting - it will loosen both of you up so that you can have a completely honest discussion.
After that, if you're both on the same page, it's time to get things going. This is another occasion where going out for a drink could help. The more relaxed you are, the more fun you'll get to have together. Before you know it, you'll both be satisfied.
Going forward, it's important not to force any kind of schedule or routine on your friend - that hits too close to being a relationship. Instead, friends with benefits relationship are casual in nature and things will simply happen when they happen. When not focused on the physical part of your friendship, make sure to stay close in other ways so you don't lose this person in your life.
Whether you stay friends with benefits for years, or move on, or even go into a relationship, you can find true enjoyment and pleasure with someone who won't attach any stings.
What a coincidence! Or is it? Whenever we have a ‘spooky’ or uncanny moment when something happens that gives us goose pimples we know we are experiencing serendipity. Thinking of your mother and then she calls you? Talking about someone and then they show up? Happens a lot doesn’t it?
We often talk about serendipity, when things happen so strangely yet so perfectly that it leaves us scratching our heads with the feeling that there is somebody ‘out there’ pulling the strings. Is serendipity destiny or just pure coincidence? You decide, but life has a wonderful way of making things happen. For instance, you miss a bus to work but your neighbor gives you a ride instead and it just so happens that in your conversation they tell you something that changes your life a little. Now if you hadn’t missed the bus, your life would not have changed…maybe!
Is it a coincidence or was it really meant to happen? How do you interpret it? What ‘coincidences’ have influenced your life so far?
If things happen for a reason then serendipity is the moment when that ‘thing’ that is meant to happen happens. It is part of your destiny and appears to us to be merely a coincidence or even an accident (if we like logical explanations). Whatever path you are on in life and whether you believe in serendipity or not, you will find that in truth, there is much we can’t predict. Sure, we can set goals and create our own futures but there will always be instances we have no control over.
When you let go of being in control all the time, and be open to serendipitous moments, life will take on a more magical form. You’ll start to notice small coincidences and moments that make no sense at first, but after a time make all the sense in the world. There will also be huge moments that totally change your life like for example my friend Nicki literally bumped into Mike on the street. That’s how they met, got talking and are now married expecting their second child. Coincidence? No! Destiny? Absolutely!
You can give your destiny a helping hand by being clear about what you want in life. Do so and watch how things start to happen to bring it together. Experiment because it can be truly magical! First, think of one thing you truly want. Be clear and state it positively. Now wait. I bet that something will happen sooner or later inline with your wish! I have seen it happen to myself and others so many times it’s just not funny. Have a go and see what happens!
Top Ten Tips: How to Let Go a Little
1. Give yourself permission
2. Know that letting go doesn’t mean loosing out
3. Stop saying ‘but what if…?’
4. Have faith that your destiny will be great
5. Focus on what you already have
6. Share the load with a willing person
7. If you cannot control or change it, forget it
8. Accept your limitations
9. Forgive and forget
10. Enjoy and cherish the moment
Break-ups for us especially on women seem to be nightmares. A lot of crying, sleepless nights and desperations are just some of the common effects of relationship break-ups. The hardest questions being asked is how to move on with life without him? Is there happiness after break-up? My answer is YES!!!
You must first understand that relationship break-ups are just a normal thing. That it can happen to anybody. Because not all relationship are made perfect and smooth. Problems and conflicts usually arise and if couples can't bear to handle these obstacles, a break-up will occur.
Women are born much sensitive than men. Mostly, in a relationship, its women who is deeply affected and have difficulty of moving on with life. I had relationship before and experience broken heart due to relationship break-up. But I can say that I was able to overcome that situation and went back to my normal life. How did I do that? Here's how:
1. I always pray to God whenever I feel so lonely. Whatever heartaches and worries that are boggling me were forwarded to Him. He is my source of strength.
2. I listen to good inspirational music and avoid listening to love songs. Gospel songs are good in healing sad feelings. It can also help me have a nice sleep.
3. I engage myself to lots of works. Being busy will give me no time to think about heartaches. Gardening or home crafts are great ideas to start with.
4. I go group dating with friends. Being with supportive friends will ease your ill feelings.
5. Don't pretend you don't know him or don't avoid talking about him for it will only prolong that recovery period. Its better that you will be used to discuss topic about him until everything becomes just a normal topic.
6. Keep yourself blooming. Develop more your beauty and health care. Don't let your heartaches ruin your personality.
7. Open your heart for a new relationship. Don't be afraid to love once more. Not all men are the same. Just be extra careful next time in choosing the right guy.
It is true that time will heal the wounds but it is also a fact that the person involved must do actions to make time do it.
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