How to confess your love ?

A person - may be still in his valentine's day mood - asked "how to confess your love"
a confession is done for something that makes you feel bad or something that might eventually have hurt another person or being
only "sins" are confessed - love never ever can be sin - love is divine!

love never needs to be confessed
love needs to be shown,
love needs to be lived,
love needs to be enjoyed by the giver as much as by the recipient

hence never confess your love
love him/her fully from the bottom of your heart
skin to skin
NOW

if you think you need to confess your love
that also may means you kept your love secret to the one you love
if you love a particular person - show it

how?

smile at him/her
eyes to eyes
always directly and instantly say that you find him/her attractive

if he/she responds instantly positively
then prove your love - hug and kiss long and very sweet with all the power of love your soul, heart and body has to offer !!!



it's NOW or NEVER ... for a full lifetime and/or beyond
even a man loves to hear such despite the fact that girls in some countries seldom or never would say such ... too proud to show their true feeling
many girls rather risk breast cancer as a result of female pride rather than showing and living the true innermost love toward the one person they truly love and most likely ALWAYS loved

always say what you feel - even and above all when you love someone
always prove what you feel - instantly and most directly, most efficiently

doing so makes sure you never miss a once in a lifetime chance to get someone you really loves you

because

the one you love
may be the one who always loved you
but due to your hiding your love the loved one never had the courage to approach you

the most successful method in finding a match always is to be most direct, most true to your heart and always live all your inner longings based on your true love

if making him/her truly happy
then even rejected love by the one you love never hurts
it simply may show you how much that person still may need to learn to love before being ready to make YOU happy as well

love is the greatest gift in all creation
love is the most beautiful you ever can give to anyone
hence love FOR someone never can be a reason to make you feel bad nor can love FOR someone make the loved one ever feel bad
only his rejecting ego could be hurt
by his / her very own pride preventing him/her from being fully loved NOW rather than may-be sometimes in the future


love and bliss

How can you move on from a break up easily?

Breaking up with someone you care about is never easy. Tell yourself you will be okay and they are no good for you. Hang out with some friends and get some fresh air. listen to some songs, maybe on youtube like "Pink - So What" "Three Days Grace - Let it die" "Three Days Grace - Riot" or any other songs! Good Luck and hope you find a good person to spend your life with! :]

Break-ups for us especially on women seem to be nightmares. A lot of crying, sleepless nights and desperations are just some of the common effects of relationship break-ups. The hardest questions being asked is how to move on with life without him? Is there happiness after break-up? My answer is YES!!!

You must first understand that relationship break-ups are just a normal thing. That it can happen to anybody. Because not all relationship are made perfect and smooth. Problems and conflicts usually arise and if couples can't bear to handle these obstacles, a break-up will occur.

Women are born much sensitive than men. Mostly, in a relationship, its women who is deeply affected and have difficulty of moving on with life. I had relationship before and experience broken heart due to relationship break-up. But I can say that I was able to overcome that situation and went back to my normal life. How did I do that? Here's how:

1. I always pray to God whenever I feel so lonely. Whatever heartaches and worries that are boggling me were forwarded to Him. He is my source of strength.

2. I listen to good inspirational music and avoid listening to love songs. Gospel songs are good in healing sad feelings. It can also help me have a nice sleep.

3. I engage myself to lots of works. Being busy will give me no time to think about heartaches. Gardening or home crafts are great ideas to start with.

4. I go group dating with friends. Being with supportive friends will ease your ill feelings.

5. Don't pretend you don't know him or don't avoid talking about him for it will only prolong that recovery period. Its better that you will be used to discuss topic about him until everything becomes just a normal topic.

6. Keep yourself blooming. Develop more your beauty and health care. Don't let your heartaches ruin your personality.

7. Open your heart for a new relationship. Don't be afraid to love once more. Not all men are the same. Just be extra careful next time in choosing the right guy.

It is true that time will heal the wounds but it is also a fact that the person involved must do actions to make time do it.

Why is it that girls will try to be near boys they like a lot but boys will try to avoid girls they like?

It's called "inexperience." Most young boys can be very shy and they don't want to be teased by their buddies. If the guy is a teenager this can still happen. I think we've all experienced when we were younger that a boy who may have slugged you on the arm, stuck his tongue out at you or made a face is (without realizing it) covering up his true feelings towards you. With teenagers they are in full sexual bloom and can be wild, want to taste life and not ready to settle down anytime soon. Eventually they turn into men and I'd love to say that all boys mature and their feelings for women change, but some (and I only mean a very few) never grow up (this includes some women).

1.I am a guy and I do understand the feelings of those freshman love years. I'll give two reasons why this may happen. 1. Guys are very direct in expressing their feelings and girls are too playful as well as talkative. 2. Some boys try to avoid the drama until they are sure of things.

2.The question of "What if I make the wrong move and she backs off?" - fear for sure.

3.I'm a girl and I often avoid boys because I don't want them to know I have feelings about them, even if they feel the same way. Also, boys are too childish to tell people their real feeling like saying "That girl's cute." but a girl would tell her friends that she thinks some boy is cute and hot.

4.They fear rejection. Like the answer above, they are not experienced when it comes to love so the feelings they're having are new to them. They also fear that they will be made fun of by their guy friends if they admit.

5.I'm a 14 year old guy and I'm very shy. But I take every chance I can get to be near the person I like, even if I don't talk to her, I still like to be near her and smell her. I even rub against her in a crowd and pretend that I didn't mean to or she just doesn't notice. So if I'm the average guy, it's not true that they don't want to be near the person they like. Well my Social Studies teacher says it as "were stupid beings" he's right in a way as rejection or no approach, no plan or plain old shy. So I guess girls don't think it's as big of a thing as boys... if you are young. I actually try to avoid her lately because I'm fairly sure she liked me before, but I totally missed all the signals and just left her hanging so I think she doesn't like me anymore.